Creating beautiful, bespoke weddings for fun loving couples

Tipi Wedding
Aynhoe Park Wedding
Waxham Barn Wedding
Luxury Wedding Planner Randfweddings

Full Service Wedding Planning 

With our vast experience in luxury and outdoor weddings we provide exceptional levels of reassurance whilst at the same time specialising in working outside of the box for those that want something different or non-traditional for their day.

We work with many overseas couples choosing the UK to host their wedding celebrations.   Creating an amazing guest experience is always our goal. LEARN MORE

Partial Wedding Planning

Because every wedding is different, we are flexible in our approach with the planning services that we offer.

No matter how short you are for time or how much or how little you wish to be involved in the planning and logistics, we can tailor make a service just for you that leaves you in control of your choices and free to relax in the run up to the wedding day. Learn More
English Wedding planner
Rutland Water Wedding Planner

Wedding Management

Regardless of whether you are at the beginning or part way through your planning journey, being entrusted as your wedding day planner to finalise what is one of the biggest days of your lives is our privilege.

Building relationships with our couples and suppliers is just as important to us as curating the final design for your big day. LEARN MORE
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Aynhoe Park Wedding

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Designer Wedding Dress

Suffolk Barn Wedding

Eco Wedding Planner

Boho Eco Wedding

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What Our Clients Say

From engagement to wedding day, for us, the wedding planning journey is all about our couples. We want you to have the best day of your lives, be relaxed knowing everything is taken care of and above all have fun both during the whole creative process and the wedding itself.

“It’s almost impossible to articulate quite how incredible Vanessa and her wonderful team are. From the start, Vanessa showed her expertise, attention to detail, willingness to get anything done no matter how challenging and just how invested she is in your wedding day.”

Amy & Alex

“Vanessa thought of every little detail and anticipated everything I needed. I didn’t have to worry about anything and could just enjoy the day!”

Joanna & Chris

“Vanessa and Dom were such a lovely couple to work alongside and provided so much advice, support and fun for our wedding day that we really don’t know how we would have managed without them (answer: we wouldn’t!).”

Charlotte & Rob

Sunday Times

County Weddings

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Closer Magazine

BBC Radio

Bride Magazine

Your journey to an exceptional wedding begins here …

Our Team

In 2004 when we first started and one night over a bottle of wine, or two! we decided that the two things any bride wants to get right from the start are the ring and the dress hence Rocks and Frocks Wedding Planning was born.   Sixteen years later, we have now become one of the highest regarded luxury and outdoor wedding planners in the UK. Now known more simply as RandFWeddings, attracting clients from across the UK, Europe, America, New Zealand and Australia specialising in bespoke, personalised, luxury and outdoor weddings across the UK and London from our base on the borders of Cambridgeshire, Bedfordshire and Hertfordshire.

Vanessa Harness

The Chief & Planning Director

Award winning, creative genius and wedding industry ‘guru’.  With Vanessa at your side you know your wedding is in safe and fun hands.

Dom Harness

Little Chief & Operations Director

Vanessa’s husband Dom, takes an active strategic role within the company and is our supplier liaison always on hand during the wedding day to lend assistance as required.

Flossie, Sprocket & Nala

Keeping us sane & paid in Dreamies

Flossie (Pictured), Sprocket  & Nala are our three office cats, they keep us company when the team are office bound and are generally found in charge of the cat treats and cuddles when not patrolling their very own Instagram account.


Planning Assistant

Sue has been with the team since the begining and is always on hand to lend assistance on the day.

Anybody that meets Vanessa quickly understands that Weddings and events are her passion

As a luxury UK and London based Wedding Planner, Vanessa is obsessive on detail and knows there’s nothing more romantic than a couple in love wanting to tie the knot, regardless of age, sex and culture. Vanessa welcomes working with same sex couples, fusion weddings and overseas couples. In 2019, we were proud to plan the wedding of her eldest groom to date at 98 years young.

Vanessa really supports collaboration during the planning journey both with her clients and her team, the partnership is all important. Vanessa’s expert experience, her creativity, design focus and her team all come together to create a beautiful, fun and impeccably planned wedding experience that’s completely distinctive and personal to you.

Vanessa has been planning and managing luxury weddings and live events all over the UK and further afield since 2004 and worked in global event management and production prior to that. Simply obsessed with an attention to detail and a desire to create beautiful meticulous, fun weddings, her approachable manner yet ‘let’s get this done’ mentality attracts likeminded clients.

Working across the UK, when not in London or the surrounding counties, Vanessa and the team operate from a modern stylish office. Based in a small quintessentially English village cottage in Cambridgeshire, this also acts as a balance to the hustle and bustle of London.

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Our clients typically love the elements of effortless, yet understated class and elegance. Extravagant and luxurious floral arrangements, delightfully tasting and visually stunning food and a passion for a good champagne that Vanessa brings to any wedding. Be it luxury country venues like Aynhoe Park, an array of beautiful marquees across sprawling countryside or 5 star London Mayfair and Park Lane hotels Vanessa has the experience, inspiration and passion to deliver your wedding in exquisite detail. Combined with her detailed yet fun and outgoing approach to wedding planning and passion for creating memorable weddings, events and occasions, the result is a sublime wedding experience for her wedding clients and your wedding guests.




Real Weddings & More

On our blog you will find real weddings, latest news, tips and advice plus guest blogs from industry experts

Consumer Confidence returning for Weddings in 2021 & 2022

Wedding suppliers interviewed are already seeing substantial enquiries for 2022 and 2023 along with a substantial backlog of 2020 weddings still to be rebooked, all of which means that we are seeing extremely limited availability of suppliers and reduced choice for wedding couples now starting to plan a 2022 wedding day.

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Couples Beware – Are you unwittingly committing wedding insurance fraud…?

We are seeing case after case literally by the hundreds and in to thousands of couples that fall foul of possible insurance fraud on mainly two possible counts…

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UK Wedding Planner

Practical guide to postponing your wedding during Covid19

Rule Numero Uno – don’t start off on the wrong foot, look to to engage with, work with and understand your suppliers so that they can understand you.

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Ready to drop us a line, or wish to request a brochure? Email Vanessa directly on hello@RandFweddings.co.uk or submit an online enquiry below: